First Site...

Is it crazy to think that you could fall in love at first site? That someone could overwhelm your heart and soul so much that you instantly find yourself wanting to get on one knee and spend the rest of your life with them at very first glance? Some say its hormones, because you don’t really see the person for who they are. To me that makes no sense. My mom to me is my nurturer and parent, while to her husband or mother or brother she is a completely different person… how can you EVER know someone completely when they are actually a hundred different people depending on how they look at them? Is it acceptable to only say that you love them when they (to you) become a person you’ve come to relate with and understand? When do you reach that acceptable point in time when “your allowed” to be in love with them? People constantly evolve in your heart, otherwise they don’t stay around… The girl you crush on, becomes the girl you like, the girl you like becomes the girl you date, the girl you date becomes the one you love… and when you look back at all these different stages in your relationship it almost seems like you were with a completely different person each time. That being said… maybe its not possible for you to love someone as a close companion and mate at very first glance, because to you he/she isn’t that person yet, but you could easily fall… head over heels for them as the person they are in that first stage of it all. And as you grow closer and they transform slowly… there would be ways to fall in love “at first site” over and over and over again until the end of time… think about it.